An invisible glue
When it comes to getting along together, trust plays an indispensable role. While we all have an intuitive grasp of what this interpersonal investment involves, even science struggles to express exactly how it works.
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A sprained ankle, a bump on the back of the head or a bruised wrist: If she’s to emerge unscathed, Tanja Ulrich, a doctoral student trained in biomedicine, needs to have a lot of trust in her dance partner. Especially since much of the routine seems to involve her being hoisted by the hips, swung over her partner’s back and balancing on their shoulders.
“Dancing can be a risky business!” she says with a laugh. Ulrich works with Emily Cross, ETH Professor of Cognitive and Social Neuroscience and a specialist in a field of study known as embodiment. Like many of her colleagues in the group, Ulrich also dances as a pastime. When she talks about risk, however, she means much more than just throwing a few breakneck moves. “You have to give a lot of yourself,” she explains. “If I place my trust in another person and count on them to accept me, and to engage with me, I automatically make myself vulnerable.”
For Gudela Grote, Professor of Work and Organizational Psychology at ETH Zurich, this unguarded state is a key element of trust: “It puts us in a place of vulnerability.” A whole range of disciplines have attempted to fathom this sphere – philosophy, psychology, neuroscience, sociology, cultural theory. In essence, all are seeking to grasp the remarkably slippery phenomenon of interpersonal trust. Love is perhaps the best analogue here: we all know intuitively what it is, and we use it to explain certain feelings or situations. But when it comes to understanding and defining it in all its manifold complexity – things suddenly become a little more difficult.
Trust as a concept crops up in a whole range of disciplines, says Grote: “It is often described as the glue that holds relationships together.” That said, it’s not so easy to prove this empirically – essentially because of an inability to measure trust in any meaningful way. Denis Burdakov, Professor of Neuroscience at ETH, agrees: “I think we don't yet have a good way to measure trust concurrently with neural activity.”
Money on trust
Just over 20 years ago, the US neuroeconomist Paul Zak published the results of a clinical trial called “The neurobiology of trust”. Participants were required to transfer money to an unknown partner via computer. They did so in the knowledge that the amount they transferred would then be tripled – to the benefit of the recipient – but that their original transfer might never be repaid. The trial showed that the greater the amount of money received, the higher the level of oxytocin (a neurotransmitter also known as the “love hormone”) that was measured in the recipient’s blood. By the same token, the higher the level of oxytocin in the recipient’s blood, the greater the probability that the money would be returned. In a follow-up experiment conducted with students in Zurich, Zak was able to show that participants who had previously received three shots of oxytocin in the nasal cavity demonstrated greater trust when making their cash transfer.
Surely these findings are fairly conclusive? Organisational psychologist Grote smiles and cautions that some researchers are unhappy with Zak’s methodology, and many find it reductionist. “When I drink alcohol, I’m also more inclined to trust other people,” Grote says. “Context is critical for whether I trust people or not. Do they make it easy for me to trust them, in that they are honest and dependable? Or if I’m already feeling stressed, am I perhaps reluctant to make myself even more vulnerable by trusting others?”
Here, Grote draws on the economist’s transactional understanding of trust. In this case, trust is primarily a question of assessing the likelihood of a favour or service being returned. For Ulrich, what we see here is an “emotional quid pro quo”: acceptance and engagement in exchange for attention; vulnerability in exchange for openness and transparency. In other words, trust is more than just a social glue. It’s also a means of collaboration.
Evidently, too, there’s more to trust than a digital transfer of cash in a lab setting. When it comes to building trustful relationships with a business partner or your boss, there’s no fast-acting hormone spray to hand. Even oxytocin enthusiast Paul Zak now acknowledges that physical cues such as looks and behaviour play an equally important role. That’s why people from the same cultural sphere find it easier to trust one another, says Grote. From this perspective, the function of stereotypes is to scale up trust to the level of society as a whole.
Gentle contact
In other words, trust operates within a larger context. “Cultural differences shape how willing people are to cede control and tolerate uncertainty,” says Grote. Social rules and norms also play a role in building trust. It would be, for example, completely normal for two ETH Zurich colleagues to treat each other warmly and respectfully in an interview situation.
As if things weren’t already complicated enough, there is also a personal dimension. “Some people are naturally more open and trusting,” Grote notes. Previous experience plays a key role here. Ulrich talks about the “hardwiring” that people get from parents, mentors and other significant figures: the big learning experiences, the lessons of which are internalised; and the gradual learning curves, which help build trust. For Ulrich, when it comes to dancing, this all begins before she even takes the floor with her partner. “One of us lies down, the other initiates gentle physical contact,” says Ulrich, explaining their pre-dance ritual to build trust.
Ulrich has recently embarked on the ETH Zurich–EPFL Joint Doctoral Program in the Learning Sciences. She is investigating what happens to, and between, people when they dance. She wants to understand more about this special dynamic of trust, creativity and pleasure. Part of her work involves studying and modelling the dancers’ movements using motion-tracking systems. Dancers are also asked to complete a questionnaire on their feelings. There may even be scope at a later stage to track oxytocin levels in the blood. Ulrich explains that she herself is more likely to trust someone if their facial expressions and gestures communicate an interest in her – and if she has a positive “gut feeling” about them. This dynamic can also work on the digital level. For example, our rapid exchange of pre-interview emails helped build up trust. “This can happen on all kinds of levels,” she explains.
Yet in today’s world of constant crisis, some of these levels are crumbling. “In uncertain times, trust declines,” says Grote, who is currently running a study on uncertainty and how this affects political belief and attitudes towards diversity. For Ulrich too, this sense of erosion is very real. “If trust is lost and social bonds fragment,” she says, “then the world runs into problems.” She emphasises the importance of engaging with one another as human beings. “Once there’s trust," she explains, "we become collectively more creative, leading to a warm feeling of togetherness!”
About

Gudela Grote is Professor of Work and Organizational Psychology in the Department of Management, Technology and Economics at ETH Zurich.

Tanja Ulrich is a doctoral student on the ETH Zurich–EPFL Joint Doctoral Program in the Learning Sciences, which was funded by the Jacobs Foundation.

Denis Burdakov is Professor of Neuroscience in the Department of Health Sciences and Technology at ETH Zurich
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